{"id":460,"date":"2015-07-08T01:30:47","date_gmt":"2015-07-08T01:30:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/?p=460"},"modified":"2015-07-08T01:30:47","modified_gmt":"2015-07-08T01:30:47","slug":"how-a-true-gentleman-handles-a-break-up-jared-haibon-on-the-bachelorette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/460\/how-a-true-gentleman-handles-a-break-up-jared-haibon-on-the-bachelorette\/","title":{"rendered":"How a true gentleman handles a break up, Jared Haibon on the Bachelorette"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/abc_bachelorette-jared-haibon-kaitlyn-bristowe.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-461\" src=\"https:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/abc_bachelorette-jared-haibon-kaitlyn-bristowe.jpg\" alt=\"ABC's Bachelorette, Jared Haibon and Kaitlyn Bristowe\" width=\"992\" height=\"558\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/abc_bachelorette-jared-haibon-kaitlyn-bristowe.jpg 992w, https:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/abc_bachelorette-jared-haibon-kaitlyn-bristowe-300x168.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 992px) 100vw, 992px\" \/><\/a>Kaitlyn Bristowe said bye to two bachelors on last night&#8217;s episode of ABC&#8217;s reality tv \u00a0show\u00a0<em>The Bachelorette<\/em>. \u00a0It was pretty crazy and full of drama like the rest of this show&#8217;s season, but there was one\u00a0moment that probably made just about all women &#8211; and I would say\u00a0the men too! &#8211; go &#8216;aww&#8217;. \u00a0Jared Haibon&#8217;s class\u00a0and kindness was clear, as he acts\u00a0like a true gentleman from the very beginning of the show&#8217;s season when he tells Kaitlyn\u00a0he actually voted for Britt Nilsson, to the very end after Kaitlyn breaks up with him. \u00a0As Kaitlyn walks Jared out from the rose ceremony into the cold to bid him goodbye, Jared notices she is feeling the chill of the night air. \u00a0The <em>aww<\/em> moment starts as he asks her if she is cold and offers\u00a0her his jacket. \u00a0Of course this is appreciated by Kaitlyn, as any woman can appreciate. \u00a0Kindness even after break-up is special. \u00a0As they talk, he tells her that she will always have a place in his heart. \u00a0Jared, you&#8217;re awesome.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\">&#8220;My journey on &#8216;The Bachelorette&#8217; was one of the best experiences of my life,&#8221; he wrote on\u00a0<\/span><a id=\"ramplink_Instagram_\" style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #2e538f;\" href=\"http:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/topics\/business\/technology\/instagram.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram<\/a><span style=\"color: #333333;\">. &#8220;I feel lucky to have been able to meet such a great group of guys and have close friendships with so many of them! I got to share so many incredible moments with such a great girl, moments that will always have a special place in my heart! Honestly, I do feel like the luckiest man alive, so thank you!!!&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\">What\u00a0<\/span>a stark difference from the first break-up of this week&#8217;s episode that Kaitlyn experienced with Joe Bailey the day before, that left her in a different kind of tears. \u00a0On their 3-on-1 group date in the park, with Shawn Booth and Nick Viall, during their one-on-one time\u00a0Kaitlyn asks Joe if he&#8217;s ready for marriage. \u00a0He responds with a kiss and professes his love for her\u00a0and that \u201cI could totally kiss you and only you for the next 60 years. Because I\u2019m in love with you, babe.\u201d \u00a0Kaitlyn immediately feels it necessary to cut off their relationship right there and not string him along, as she is not feeling the same way about him. \u00a0Joe tries to brush off the rejection, telling her, \u201cAnd I respect that. It\u2019s cool. No worries man.\u201d \u00a0He reluctantly gives Kaitlyn a hug after she asks for one and then turns angry, \u201cSo what do I do now? What should I do? You tell me\u2026not saying s**to you\u2026I\u2019m done with you, don\u2019t talk to me.\u201d \u00a0And that&#8217;s that as he walks off. \u00a0Joe explains his angry goodbye on Twitter:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"Tweet-text e-entry-title\" dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\" style=\"color: #1c2022;\">So many emotions were going through my head at that point that I didn&#8217;t know what to do or say! Rejection hurts<br \/>\n<a class=\"u-linkBlend u-url customisable-highlight long-permalink\" style=\"font-weight: inherit; color: inherit;\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/joebaileysego\/status\/618224653362966528\" data-datetime=\"2015-07-07T01:06:58+0000\" data-scribe=\"element:full_timestamp\"><time class=\"dt-updated\" title=\"Time posted: 07 Jul 2015, 01:06:58 (UTC)\" datetime=\"2015-07-07T01:06:58+0000\">6:06 PM &#8211; 6 Jul 2015<\/time><\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Kaitlyn&#8217;s response on Twitter:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"Tweet-text e-entry-title\" dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"und\" style=\"color: #1c2022;\"><a class=\"PrettyLink hashtag customisable\" dir=\"ltr\" style=\"color: #2b7bb9;\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/noworriesman?src=hash\" rel=\"tag\" data-query-source=\"hashtag_click\" data-scribe=\"element:hashtag\"><span class=\"PrettyLink-prefix\">#<\/span><span class=\"PrettyLink-value\">noworriesman<\/span><\/a> <a class=\"PrettyLink hashtag customisable\" dir=\"ltr\" style=\"color: #2b7bb9;\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/TheBachelorette?src=hash\" rel=\"tag\" data-query-source=\"hashtag_click\" data-scribe=\"element:hashtag\"><span class=\"PrettyLink-prefix\">#<\/span><span class=\"PrettyLink-value\">TheBachelorette<br \/>\n<\/span><\/a><a class=\"u-linkBlend u-url customisable-highlight long-permalink\" style=\"font-weight: inherit; color: inherit;\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/kaitlynbristowe\/status\/618262832656683008\" data-datetime=\"2015-07-07T03:38:40+0000\" data-scribe=\"element:full_timestamp\"><time class=\"dt-updated\" title=\"Time posted: 07 Jul 2015, 03:38:40 (UTC)\" datetime=\"2015-07-07T03:38:40+0000\">8:38 PM &#8211; 6 Jul 2015<\/time><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Tweet-text e-entry-title\" dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">Warmest hug ever<br \/>\n<a class=\"u-linkBlend u-url customisable-highlight long-permalink\" style=\"font-weight: inherit; color: inherit;\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/kaitlynbristowe\/status\/618262864248221696\" data-datetime=\"2015-07-07T03:38:48+0000\" data-scribe=\"element:full_timestamp\"><time class=\"dt-updated\" title=\"Time posted: 07 Jul 2015, 03:38:48 (UTC)\" datetime=\"2015-07-07T03:38:48+0000\">8:38 PM &#8211; 6 Jul 2015<\/time><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Tweet-text e-entry-title\" dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\" style=\"color: #1c2022;\">I hope Joe found his way from the woods to paradise <a class=\"PrettyLink hashtag customisable\" dir=\"ltr\" style=\"color: #2b7bb9;\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/BachelorInParadise?src=hash\" rel=\"tag\" data-query-source=\"hashtag_click\" data-scribe=\"element:hashtag\"><span class=\"PrettyLink-prefix\">#<\/span><span class=\"PrettyLink-value\">BachelorInParadise<\/span><\/a> <a class=\"PrettyLink hashtag customisable\" dir=\"ltr\" style=\"color: #2b7bb9;\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/TheBachelorette?src=hash\" rel=\"tag\" data-query-source=\"hashtag_click\" data-scribe=\"element:hashtag\"><span class=\"PrettyLink-prefix\">#<\/span><span class=\"PrettyLink-value\">TheBachelorette<br \/>\n<\/span><\/a><a class=\"u-linkBlend u-url customisable-highlight long-permalink\" style=\"font-weight: inherit; color: inherit;\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/kaitlynbristowe\/status\/618263231090458624\" data-datetime=\"2015-07-07T03:40:15+0000\" data-scribe=\"element:full_timestamp\"><time class=\"dt-updated\" title=\"Time posted: 07 Jul 2015, 03:40:15 (UTC)\" datetime=\"2015-07-07T03:40:15+0000\">8:40 PM &#8211; 6 Jul 2015<\/time><\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>But according to <em>People<\/em>, it&#8217;s not Joe that will be on the spin-off show <em>Bachelor in Paradise<\/em>, but nice guy Jared.<\/p>\n<p>Kaitlyn will be choosing between 3 men now on <em>The Bachelorette<\/em>: Benjamin Higgins &#8211; who wants to talk all night during the overnight date, and\u00a0Shawn Booth and Nick Viall who probably have different plans for the night.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kaitlyn Bristowe said bye to two bachelors on last night&#8217;s episode of ABC&#8217;s reality tv \u00a0show\u00a0The Bachelorette. \u00a0It was pretty crazy and full of drama like the rest of this show&#8217;s season, but there was one\u00a0moment that probably made just &hellip; 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