{"id":1030,"date":"2017-12-15T02:52:47","date_gmt":"2017-12-15T02:52:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/?p=1030"},"modified":"2017-12-15T02:56:38","modified_gmt":"2017-12-15T02:56:38","slug":"women-share-how-long-it-took-them-to-fall-in-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/1030\/women-share-how-long-it-took-them-to-fall-in-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Women Share How Long It Took Them To Fall In Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1031\" src=\"https:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/couple-first-date.jpg\" alt=\"Couple on first date\" width=\"848\" height=\"566\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/couple-first-date.jpg 848w, https:\/\/www.friendsmatchme.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/couple-first-date-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 848px) 100vw, 848px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A Reddit question on the AskWomen section, &#8220;<a class=\"title may-blank \" style=\"color: #551a8b;\" tabindex=\"1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskWomen\/comments\/6cxko8\/how_long_did_it_take_to_fall_in_love_with_your\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"\" data-event-action=\"title\" data-href-url=\"\/r\/AskWomen\/comments\/6cxko8\/how_long_did_it_take_to_fall_in_love_with_your\/\" data-inbound-url=\"\/r\/AskWomen\/comments\/6cxko8\/how_long_did_it_take_to_fall_in_love_with_your\/?utm_content=title&amp;utm_medium=front&amp;utm_source=reddit&amp;utm_name=AskWomen\">How long did it take to fall in love with your past or present partner?<\/a>&#8220;.\u00a0 Some were super fast, and some took time:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<header class=\"reddit-embed-comment-header\" style=\"color: #000000;\"><a class=\"author may-blank id-t2_zicqh\" style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #336699;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/CallMeFlapadap\" target=\"_blank\">CallMeFlapadap<\/a>\u00a012 points\u00a0<time class=\"live-timestamp\" title=\"Tue May 23 21:14:55 2017 UTC\" datetime=\"2017-05-23T21:14:55+00:00\">6 months ago<\/time><\/p>\n<div class=\"reddit-embed-comment-meta\">Super fast. I think 1 month of dating, but I still &#8220;kept it together&#8221; for another 2 weeks until I couldn&#8217;t keep the words in anymore.<\/div>\n<div class=\"reddit-embed-comment-meta\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"reddit-embed-comment-meta\">I used to be a &#8220;you can&#8217;t fall in love that fast&#8221; person. Until I wasn&#8217;t anymore<\/div>\n<div class=\"reddit-embed-comment-meta\">\n<p class=\"tagline\" style=\"color: #888888;\"><a class=\"author may-blank id-t2_ktjqz\" style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #336699;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/Emptyplates\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\nEmptyplates<\/a>\u00a0<span class=\"score unvoted\" title=\"7\">7 points<\/span>\u00a0<time title=\"Tue May 23 22:06:34 2017 UTC\" datetime=\"2017-05-23T22:06:34+00:00\">6 months ago<\/time><\/p>\n<form id=\"form-t1_dhy7v5agt5\" class=\"usertext warn-on-unload\" style=\"color: #000000;\" action=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskWomen\/comments\/6cxko8\/how_long_did_it_take_to_fall_in_love_with_your\/#\">\n<div class=\"usertext-body may-blank-within md-container \">\n<div class=\"md\" style=\"color: #222222;\">\n<p>It was super fast, within weeks of dating. Still together 22 years later.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/form>\n<\/div>\n<\/header>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div class=\"md\" style=\"color: #222222;\">\n<blockquote>\n<header class=\"reddit-embed-comment-header\" style=\"color: #000000;\"><span class=\"reddit-embed-author\" style=\"color: #6f6f6f;\"><a class=\"author may-blank id-t2_qsji0\" style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #336699;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/lunalannister\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\nlunalannister<\/a>\u00a0<\/span>6 points\u00a0<time class=\"live-timestamp\" title=\"Tue May 23 21:26:56 2017 UTC\" datetime=\"2017-05-23T21:26:56+00:00\">6 months ago<\/time><\/p>\n<div class=\"reddit-embed-comment-meta\">About a minute for my infatuation to settle in. I&#8217;d say after the first week of knowing him I was 100% in love.<\/div>\n<div class=\"reddit-embed-comment-meta\">\n<p class=\"tagline\" style=\"color: #888888;\"><a class=\"author may-blank id-t2_i050v\" style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #336699;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/TemporarilyAHotdog\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\nTemporarilyAHotdog<\/a>\u00a0<span class=\"score unvoted\" title=\"5\">5 points\u00a0<\/span><time title=\"Tue May 23 22:55:43 2017 UTC\" datetime=\"2017-05-23T22:55:43+00:00\">6 months ago<\/time><\/p>\n<form id=\"form-t1_dhya5pec1b\" class=\"usertext warn-on-unload\" style=\"color: #000000;\" action=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskWomen\/comments\/6cxko8\/how_long_did_it_take_to_fall_in_love_with_your\/#\">\n<div class=\"usertext-body may-blank-within md-container \">\n<div class=\"md\" style=\"color: #222222;\">\n<p>I started to feel it at 5 months. We were supposed to be this casual NSA thing but that turned into entire weekends and at least 2 nights a week together. I was the one who asked him out, so I decided I wouldn&#8217;t say I love you first. Two weeks later he said it.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"author may-blank id-t2_9qeu4\" style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #336699;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/ladyintheatre\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\nladyintheatre<\/a>\u00a0<span class=\"score unvoted\" title=\"2\">2 points<\/span><time title=\"Tue May 23 21:16:39 2017 UTC\" datetime=\"2017-05-23T21:16:39+00:00\">6 months ago<\/time><\/p>\n<div class=\"usertext-body may-blank-within md-container \">\n<div class=\"md\" style=\"color: #222222;\">\n<p>I fell in love with my SO way way faster than usual. We said I love you about 3.5 months in but I had been thinking it for a while. I had to kinda go back and forth with myself for a bit about whether I really did love him because I didn&#8217;t quite trust it since it happened so fast.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"author may-blank id-t2_ok29y\" style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #336699;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/Lyanina\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\nLyanina<\/a>\u00a0<span class=\"score unvoted\" title=\"2\">2 points<\/span><time title=\"Tue May 23 21:20:46 2017 UTC\" datetime=\"2017-05-23T21:20:46+00:00\">6 months ago<\/time><\/p>\n<div class=\"usertext-body may-blank-within md-container \">\n<div class=\"md\" style=\"color: #222222;\">\n<p>Around four or five months together, friends 8 months before that.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"author may-blank id-t2_10l1du\" style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #336699;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/deafblindgirluk\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\ndeafblindgirluk<\/a>\u00a0<span class=\"score unvoted\" title=\"2\">2 points<\/span><time title=\"Wed May 24 01:55:59 2017 UTC\" datetime=\"2017-05-24T01:55:59+00:00\">6 months ago<\/time><\/p>\n<p>It was weird, I met him almost exactly one year ago and we didn&#8217;t hit it off. I was quite happy to leave it in the past and I met someone else 3 months later, who I liked immediately. Unfortunately after a few months that relationship took a nosedive.<\/p>\n<div class=\"usertext-body may-blank-within md-container \">\n<div class=\"md\" style=\"color: #222222;\">\n<p>I went back on the dating site I had used before and the first guy soon messaged asking if we could try again. I ignored him because I was talking to other guys who seemed more friendly and positive and generally a better match.<\/p>\n<p>However he then found my mobile number again and started casually messaging. I thought ok, we can be friends. I very quickly realised though that we were getting on like a house on fire this time. He was such a gentleman, similar morals, outlook on life, keen to settle down etc. He was making such an effort with me and soon progressed to buying lovely presents, fixing things around the house for me and really becoming everything I had ever wanted in a guy. We&#8217;ve been together almost 7 months now and planning next stage of our lives.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"reddit-embed-author\" style=\"color: #6f6f6f;\"><a class=\"author may-blank id-t2_s5wsq\" style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #336699;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/Girlwithasling\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\nGirlwithasling<\/a>\u00a0<\/span>2 points\u00a0<time class=\"live-timestamp\" title=\"Wed May 17 00:44:57 2017 UTC\" datetime=\"2017-05-17T00:44:57+00:00\">7 months ago<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/form>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"reddit-embed-comment-meta\">\n<header class=\"reddit-embed-comment-header\" style=\"color: #000000;\">\n<div class=\"reddit-embed-comment-meta\">\n<header class=\"reddit-embed-comment-header\" style=\"color: #000000;\">\n<div class=\"reddit-embed-comment-meta\">Only a handful of dates. Which was unexpected, before that I&#8217;d only ever fallen in love with people I&#8217;d known at least a year and was already friends with. Never would have guessed that the first time I met him and he asked me out.<\/div>\n<div class=\"reddit-embed-comment-meta\"><\/div>\n<\/header>\n<\/div>\n<\/header>\n<\/div>\n<\/header>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>How about you?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Reddit question on the AskWomen section, &#8220;How long did it take to fall in love with your past or present partner?&#8220;.\u00a0 Some were super fast, and some took time: CallMeFlapadap\u00a012 points\u00a06 months ago Super fast. 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